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The I Am Safe affirmations
Find a comfortable position. Read these slowly, either out loud or silently. There is no wrong pace.
I am safe.
I am calm.
I am grounded in the present moment.
My mind is clear.
My thoughts are gentle.
I release what no longer serves me.
Every breath I take brings me peace.
I am enough just as I am.
If one line stands out to you, stay with it. Repeat it for a few breaths before moving on — or let it be the only one you use today.
A simple breathing companion
Affirmations work well alongside slow breathing. Try this pattern while you read:
Breathe in gently through your nose for a count of four.
Hold — loosely, without strain — for a count of four.
Breathe out slowly through your mouth for a count of six.
Repeat four to six times, letting your shoulders drop a little more on each exhale.
That's the whole practice. Two minutes is enough. Longer is fine too.
When to use this
Before bed, to slow the day down.
Before something nervous-making — a call, a meeting, a journey.
After difficult news, as a first step back to steadiness.
Any moment you notice your thoughts running ahead of you.
Free 90-minute rain audio download
If you'd like longer rain ambience for sleep or relaxation, we offer a free 90-minute recording — Rain on a Harbor Window. It works offline, requires nothing to install, and is yours to keep.
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Listen to the affirmation video (optional)
The affirmations above also come as a short video, I Am Safe — Calming Affirmations with Healing Piano Music by Lomholt-Thomsen Music.
About these links: both go to the same free video. The direct link takes you straight to YouTube. The supported link routes through an ad-supported shortener, which shows advertisements before reaching the video and supports this page at no cost to you. The choice is entirely yours.